“I urge you all today, especially today during these times of chaos and war, to love yourself without reservations and to love each other without restraint. Unless you're into leather.” ― Margaret Cho
Some people have an opinion about kink, fewer have experience, and yet this is an area of curiosity for many.
These education-based sessions are specifically tailored to folks who want to start exploring or dive deeper into their kinky side. With 20+ years of experience, including educating within the kink community, you'll find comfortable, understanding, and knowledgeable guidance in your curiosity.
I think we're lucky to live in a time where opportunities to get curious about kink and bdsm (these overlap but they're not interchangeable terms) are more available, and being curious isn't nearly the taboo that it was even 5 to 10 years ago.
That said, it can be incredibly difficult to know where and how to start especially if you're not even sure it's for you! There are a lot of ideas out there about what's kinky, what bdsm means, and don't get me started on the fact that these things can be highly pleasurable without being inherently sexual or inherently painful.
Perhaps you've heard some talk recently that has made you curious about this whole realm but that's as far as you've gotten with it. Maybe you've explored a bit and you want to learn more, get a sense of what's out there, and ask real questions. It might be that you, alone or with a partner, are curious about specific skills, tools, or communication and want to get access to open, knowledgeable conversations about it.
In response to the growing interest in getting playful in new ways, I have started offering Kink / BDSM 101 !
What It Is:
* An opportunity to learn more about the idea of kink, why it's not necessarily the same as BDSM, and how people may incorporate one or both of these things into their lives.
* A space to ask the questions you have, or learn about things like power, rules, protocols, "scenes", communication, dynamics, and communities (not an exhaustive list!)
* A chance to look at and touch kink play toys and understand what they're for, safety, and considerations.
* A conversation that helps you learn more about what you may be looking for, and what kind of play, toys, etc may help you experience it.
* Guidance about where to start whether you're thinking of exploring play privately or in community.
What It Is Not:
* A play date (an interactive experience where people are putting all of this into action together).
These sessions are for you if:
* you've never even had these conversations before, you're not too sure about whether pain or power dynamics are for you, but something about the idea of kink makes you curious and you'd like someone to ask you the right questions (and offer insightful answers) to help you explore a bit more.
* you've had some experience with some play; reading; consuming media that has given you a sense of what you're interested in but you're not sure where to go from here.
* you know you've got some kinky interests and want to get into more, or help a partner understand your interests.
* you'd like a chance to check out a kink toy "petting zoo" to see what else you might like to play with.
* you, alone or with a partner, would like to gain the necessary communication skills specific to BDSM.
Sessions are 75 minutes ($210+gst)
If you've got any questions about whether this offering is for you, reach out here to book a free 15 minute consult.
These education-based sessions are specifically tailored to folks who want to start exploring or dive deeper into their kinky side. With 20+ years of experience, including educating within the kink community, you'll find comfortable, understanding, and knowledgeable guidance in your curiosity.
I think we're lucky to live in a time where opportunities to get curious about kink and bdsm (these overlap but they're not interchangeable terms) are more available, and being curious isn't nearly the taboo that it was even 5 to 10 years ago.
That said, it can be incredibly difficult to know where and how to start especially if you're not even sure it's for you! There are a lot of ideas out there about what's kinky, what bdsm means, and don't get me started on the fact that these things can be highly pleasurable without being inherently sexual or inherently painful.
Perhaps you've heard some talk recently that has made you curious about this whole realm but that's as far as you've gotten with it. Maybe you've explored a bit and you want to learn more, get a sense of what's out there, and ask real questions. It might be that you, alone or with a partner, are curious about specific skills, tools, or communication and want to get access to open, knowledgeable conversations about it.
In response to the growing interest in getting playful in new ways, I have started offering Kink / BDSM 101 !
What It Is:
* An opportunity to learn more about the idea of kink, why it's not necessarily the same as BDSM, and how people may incorporate one or both of these things into their lives.
* A space to ask the questions you have, or learn about things like power, rules, protocols, "scenes", communication, dynamics, and communities (not an exhaustive list!)
* A chance to look at and touch kink play toys and understand what they're for, safety, and considerations.
* A conversation that helps you learn more about what you may be looking for, and what kind of play, toys, etc may help you experience it.
* Guidance about where to start whether you're thinking of exploring play privately or in community.
What It Is Not:
* A play date (an interactive experience where people are putting all of this into action together).
These sessions are for you if:
* you've never even had these conversations before, you're not too sure about whether pain or power dynamics are for you, but something about the idea of kink makes you curious and you'd like someone to ask you the right questions (and offer insightful answers) to help you explore a bit more.
* you've had some experience with some play; reading; consuming media that has given you a sense of what you're interested in but you're not sure where to go from here.
* you know you've got some kinky interests and want to get into more, or help a partner understand your interests.
* you'd like a chance to check out a kink toy "petting zoo" to see what else you might like to play with.
* you, alone or with a partner, would like to gain the necessary communication skills specific to BDSM.
Sessions are 75 minutes ($210+gst)
If you've got any questions about whether this offering is for you, reach out here to book a free 15 minute consult.